update on "confusion over and over again

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-13-2004
update on "confusion over and over again
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Tue, 06-15-2004 - 10:54am
I have taken the people's advice on here and in my life about this situation=and came to 1 conclusion=I cannot control the actions of someone else--just mine. Therefore--I have emailed my ex and told him I was sorry he was having issues, etc. but basically that I wanted him to really leave me alone now. I said alot more--but decided not to bore you all with it. I have decided that no matter what he does--popping up--whatever--that I will find a reason to make it as short as possible, "just leaving", whatever and I will see to it that he cannot affect me anymore. I know he still loves me and I do him also-but I feel that even if he isn't a good communicator--he's had more then enough chances and he's blown them over and over again. So enough is enough! I am getting out of the game. Thanks everyone. Sometmes it takes people outside of the picture to make you see the situation differently.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-07-2004
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 2:04am
I am glad you were able to act on a positive path for yourself.

Best wishes and good luck

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-26-2004
Wed, 06-16-2004 - 1:09pm
Wow...what a dose of wisdom you have discovered!

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