Vacation No Car. New Girl
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Vacation No Car. New Girl
| Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:30am |
Last night i was at a restaraunt and i i met this girl that is a hostess there. I got her number and we seemed to click. The problem is i dont know anything about this city im in, and i dont have a car. Im embarrased to ask her drive but i dont think i have choice. I also dont know what the hell to do. Should i let her make the decision on where to go. She from around here so she might know more. All i have is her name and her number

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Pick up a newspaper, see if there's a town website with an events calendar - if you are going to ask her out, have a plan in mind.
For a first date, I don't see anything wrong with meeting up at the location. She can driver herself, you can use public transportation.
I don't think it would be *wrong*, but maybe give her the option.
No offense to you, or any other man, but I personally wouldn't feel comfortable getting into a car with a man I don't know, or letting one into my car - particularly with the Kelsey Smith case so fresh - I think something like that puts women on edge.
Call tonight or tomorrow to see if she wants to make plans for Saturday or Sunday.
I'm not a big fan of the supposed 3 day rule.
If you're interested, call her. Don't play games.
At 19 you can't rent a car? How is that possible?
I agree, tell her about your situation with no transportation and see if she quickly chimes in "I can pick you up." If there is a delay, then you can offer to meet her somewhere. But being new to her town, I would think she would want to pick you up.
Since you don't know her, I would think you would want to spend time talking to her. You can go to a movie and have something to eat afterwards. This way you can break any initial awkward silences with conversation about the movie. Or you can do dinner and drinks. Just make sure you tell her that you would love to eat at a place where it is quiet enough for the two of you to talk and get acquainted. The reason I say that is because you are not from her area, she may want to take you someplace "happening" with lots of noise or music, when you may want something more intimate.
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Umm, because of insurance purposes.
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