Vacation No Car. New Girl

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Registered: 06-06-2007
Vacation No Car. New Girl
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Wed, 06-06-2007 - 10:30am
Last night i was at a restaraunt and i i met this girl that is a hostess there. I got her number and we seemed to click. The problem is i dont know anything about this city im in, and i dont have a car. Im embarrased to ask her drive but i dont think i have choice. I also dont know what the hell to do. Should i let her make the decision on where to go. She from around here so she might know more. All i have is her name and her number

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Registered: 02-15-2005
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 2:22pm

What town/city are you in or near?

Don't have to answer if you don't want to - but I travel a lot and there are people from all over the place on this board who could give you ideas.


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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 4:48pm

I agree that a movie on a first date isn't the best idea.

But you could do something as simple as go to the outdoor mall, walk around and maybe get ice cream or something. That way you could still talk and get to know each other.

I also agree with offering to meet her first and let HER volunteer to pick you up if she wants to.

I'm 39 and DON'T think it's immature to offer to meet. I've met some people through online dating, or other situations where I don't really know the person well, and meeting up has always made me more comfortable.

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Registered: 11-30-2006
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 7:22pm
"Umm, because of insurance purposes" -- how would I know this? I'm alot older than 25. Your "umm" sounds a little condescending, I hope you dont mind me saying. Not all of us rented cars before the age of 25 you know.
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Registered: 11-30-2006
Wed, 06-06-2007 - 7:25pm
Sorry, I didn't know the law regarding car rentals. I never rented a car under the age of 25 before. I'm sure you will be fine and have a great time!!! Good luck!!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 06-07-2007 - 5:24pm

So what happened??

Did you call? Did you make a date?

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Registered: 06-06-2007
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 12:48am
she didnt answer my calls twice. Then i recieved a text message from her telling me that she had to go to d.c for a week to visit her family. And when she got back she would call me. She said she didnt have her phone by her thats why no answer. When i texted her back no answer. Why wont she just talk on the phone. Why wont she text back. my guess most likely not fully interested. Probably shouldnt waste my time
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Registered: 06-03-2007
Wed, 06-13-2007 - 5:32am
I would just chill on it. If she calls you when she gets back, then she's interested.
But the ball is most definitely in her court. I wouldn't call her again.

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