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very nervous !
| Tue, 02-21-2006 - 11:24am |
I met this guy by mutual friends and instantly liked him. I've seen him a bunch of times, always with our other friends, but tomorrow we have a date and it will be just the 2 of us for the first time. The thing is, i am sooooo nervous about this date, i'm almost thinking of cancelling it (makes no sense i know). We've always had this great chemistry and he makes me laugh, but i'm afraid it will be different while we're alone together. Help !

Hi laury,
I tried to email you, however you don't have that option turned on. Would you please email me at bklynchik@gmail.com?
Thank you!
It may be different. And then again, it may not. That's the whole point of a date--to see if there is chemistry between the two of you. Don't let the butterflies get to you. And try not to build it up in your head more than what it should be. Think about it as an interview, you're going to see if this is a guy you are compatible with and have anything in common with.
Remember that you are in control. Therefore, no need to freak out. Canceling would leave unanswered questions in your mind so there's no point in doing so.
Breathe, take it easy. Keep yourself busy until the date. :o)
Hope this helps.
Laury,
Been there done that. Don't ya just hate it?!
It helped to tell myself that I didn't know if we would really like each other once we got to know one another. Sounds kinda silly and simple...but after awhile, it sunk in, and I wasn't nearly as nervous.
Good Luck! Just have fun...don't worry about impressing him...be yourself.