A very sick mother

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Registered: 11-07-2007
A very sick mother
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Wed, 11-07-2007 - 9:32pm

Hey Everyone,


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Registered: 01-07-2004
Thu, 11-08-2007 - 1:14pm
hello!! well, i say go with your heart. be there for him-hes going to need all the help, support and love that he can get in the next few months. my sister in law started dating a guy and she found out her mother was very sick...her mother gave them her blessing though-and got to know this guy before she died. my sil married the guy and they have been married for almost 3 years, they have 1 son together and shes pregnant again. my mil died knowing that my sil was with a good guy and that she was happy. my bil was only with my sil for a short time when my mil passed-he was there for her-he was her support and his love helped her through. im not telling you what to do-but if it was me and you really like this guy-then go for it. dont back out now because the road is going to get rough. if its meant to be-it will be. if its not meant to be-then it wont be-but dont back out now-you will end up regretting it in the long run cuz youll always wonder what might have been...take care!!
JOANNE
maman2goons@yahoo.com
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Registered: 08-16-2005
Fri, 11-09-2007 - 7:30am

I agree with the previous poster. Why pull away. He's calling, you two are making plans, he's a positive person that realizes that life has to go on for him even if things are not so positive in other parts of his life pertaining to his mom. I say go for it.


Smile,

Deirdre

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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 11-11-2007 - 11:22am

What a sad situation -perhaps for right now offer friendship and support...

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