Waiting

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Registered: 04-01-2004
Waiting
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Thu, 04-01-2004 - 6:45pm
Hi, I recently told a guy friend of mine that I'd like to be more than "friends" with him. We've known each other for a long time and he's always seemed as if he wanted to step up the relationship. Although, there is an age difference and I thinks thats what was holding him back. He's ten years older than me but it would be certainly legal. Anyway, I told him how I felt and then gave him time to think about and then told him to give me a call or to stop by. It's been a couple weeks and I've yet to get that call or he's yet to to by. He's the kind of guy that really has to weigh out the pro's and con's and I was wondering is this is too long or how long should I even wait? He seemed so interested and I wouldn't have told him anything if I thought I was playing a game I couldn't win. Although, I'm wondering even though he seemed interested, am I still going to lose? Waiting and confused; any suggestions?
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Registered: 04-01-2003
In reply to: maverick38
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 6:56pm
If he was interested in more, I think you wouldve heard by now.
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Registered: 03-15-2004
In reply to: maverick38
Thu, 04-01-2004 - 8:15pm
I don't think he's that into you if he hasn't called by now and needs to think about it this long without calling you to reassure you that he just needs some time.