Waiting for a call....

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-11-2006
Waiting for a call....
1
Tue, 08-15-2006 - 9:27pm
So I have a question. I met this guy while he was working, and that is how I see him every single day...working. Anyway on Monday I decide to slip him something with my number on it. Yet I haven't heard from him. He seemed like he was pretty interested. How long do men normally wait to call? And if he doesn't how do I save face, having to see him everyday? What is everyones' take on this one? Thanks in advance
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Registered: 04-14-2003
Wed, 08-16-2006 - 8:53am

"Slipping him your number" was probably not the best course of action. Do you know whether he has a girlfriend? Do you know whether he is available for dating? Are there some sort of work restrictions on interoffice dating? Perhaps he does not wish to date someone with whom he works?

You slipped him your number but he probably does not know why he should call you. Are you interested in a booty call? A dinner date? Coffee? A chat on the phone? How much does this guy know about you? Does he know you want to get to know him better?

If he does not call you, go on with your life as if nothing happened. Next time start a conversation and find out more about a man. Let him know you are available and if you are feeling confident ask him whether he wants to take a coffee break with you.