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| Sun, 08-28-2005 - 6:17pm |
Hi all,
I'm looking for your opinion on these two questions. I've been seeing this guy for about 2 months. Probably on an average of once a week. My last 2 relationships went from dating to exclusive extremely quick so i'm not used to the dating ways. Anyway we both like haging out with each other ALOT, there is so much chemistry between the 2 of us. We are not exclusive so i've been dating other guys. I have not been nearly as interested in any of the guys as I am with B. I brought something up the other night about dating other people and I told him that I've been on other dates. He said he hasn't bec no one has caught his eye and he doesn't want to know that I go on dates. He told me that he doesn't want to go to fast right now bec he has never been in love before and he wants to take it slow (we are 30). I'm definitely ok with us going slow but my first question is, is it ok if I still hang out with him. I mean does he really need to be my Boyfriend after a 2 months? My second question is, I have a benefit to go to at the end of september. Can I ask him to come with me? My family is going to be there but it's not like a sit down dinner where he will have to be around them the whole night. I've met his sister and some of his friends before so I don't think he will think it's uncomfortable. what do you all think??
Thanks

I personally think it's really nice to take things slow. IMO, if you all aren't ready to be exclusive then it's totally fine to go on other dates AND hang out with him.
I would think the dinner thing would be fine to invite him to. Like you said, it's not like it's an invitation to "meet the parents" ...just a fun event that your family will happen to be at.