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wanting more....
| Fri, 05-14-2004 - 11:56am |
i'm looking for some advice on how to tell my boyfriend i want to talk to him/see him more often. we have been together for 4 months, so in some respects it is still a new relationship, but it is pretty intense emotionally. i met him through some friends and they have told me his a great boyfriend and was so attentive to his last girlfriend. i am not a forward person and have trouble asking for what i want. i am really very content with the way things are going, however i wish we talked on the phone everyday. does this seem like too much? we e-mail occassionally throughout the week and i usually end up calling every other day if i don't hear from him. when i do this we stay on the phone for at least an hour or more until we are both ready to fall asleep. if i don't call he'll call within three days time, and i have been trying to hold off more and more and et him call me. sometimes i think he wants to talk to me everyday too but feel like he shouldn't call. but then sometimes i feel like he doesn't call so he doesn't want to talk to me. so i don't ever push the issue. i'd like to say something, but i don't want it to come across as "i think you should be calling me everyday." just, i wish we could talk more, or something.
any thoughts? are most people whoever been together for this short/long talking every day? or does it depend on the relationship?

To answer your question though, I don't think I've ever been in a relationship where we talked every day, unless we were living together/married. Every other day works for me.
Sheri