wants to marry me; i dont have the guts
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wants to marry me; i dont have the guts
| Thu, 12-09-2004 - 4:24pm |
i am so confused....i have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. we are "madly in love" but we have ran into a major problem. i am a 20 year old white female fully independent from my parents; he is a 21 year old black male. where i am from interracial relationships are not accepted by my parents generation at all. my parents know i am "friends" with him but i still cant tell them that we are together together. my mom is not dumb and i know deep inside she knows. problem is....he wants to get married and i dont even have the nerve to tell my parents we are together. i am someone who wants to make everyone happy, but i dont think this will be one of those cases. please help me deal with this....

i think the final pin has been pulled from the stack, every time lately (since when i told my mom that he and i were best friends and we would be together if it werent for her *a lie yes*) when i call my mom she never has the time to talk to me. she use to call me almost every day and now she hasnt called me in about 2 weeks. like *he* told me tonight, my parents are just trying to ignore me so i will get a taste of how it feels when i tell them im with him. i think i am gonna go ahead and tell them we are dating and i dont care what they think because he makes me happy and treats me good!