Was it the END?
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Was it the END?
| Wed, 06-28-2006 - 8:05pm |
I talked with this guy 3 times. It's been 7 days and he has not initiated any contact with me ... does it mean he is not interested in me (we have never met)?

Could be...or he might be on vacation...you never know. I'm assuming you have responded to any emails he sent and/or returned any phone calls and the ball is in his court? You could always try sending an email saying "hey, haven't heard from you in a while, how are things?" and see what happens, but I personally don't like having to "prod" a guy into showing his interest in me (and even if the guy responds to your prod, it's hard to know if he's really interested or just responding to be polite or because he doesn't want to look like the bad guy).
I always assume that every communication I have with a guy early on (including through the first few dates or so after meeting in person) will be the last time I hear from him. That way, it makes it easier to say "oh well" if he doesn't contact me again, because I'm not expecting that he will. If he does, it's a bonus.
Sheri