we broke up but he wants to marry me

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Registered: 11-22-2006
we broke up but he wants to marry me
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Wed, 11-22-2006 - 1:30pm
My boyfriend and I of over year broke up recently (he broke up w/ me). We still talk and see each and sleep together. He has told me a few times how I'm the best thing in the world and how no one will ever compare to me. He told me how he wants to marry me and layed out the plans, where we'd live, when etc. Meanwhile I just laughed it off saying sure you think that. The next day I called and to let him off the hook saying if you were tipsy (we had a few drinks) you sometimes say stuff you don't mean, but don't say that to just get in my pants. He said that he doesn't have to try hard to sleep with me (neither of us are really seeing other people and we're both attracted to each other still) and he really meant what he said, but just to wait (we're both 21 and I finished school and he's in his last year). Is he just messing with me head or does he want the best of both worlds (partying at school, but still getting to see me) Please give me your opinions.


Edited 11/22/2006 1:48 pm ET by livs828
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Registered: 11-13-2006
Wed, 11-22-2006 - 2:11pm
You should ask yourself if you are ready to get married?
I mean you're only 21!
Sometimes it is true that guys will break up because we are SCARED!
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Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 11-26-2006 - 9:22pm
You're both very young and he's still in school and your relationship is up and down, so there is no reason to think of marriage at all for quite a while to come.
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