we have been friends with benefits..but

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2008
we have been friends with benefits..but
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Tue, 01-01-2008 - 6:37pm
we have been friends with benefits for about a month and i am just wondering, can it ever be more than that?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Sat, 01-05-2008 - 11:33am
This is my own philosophy based on what one should expect from someone who likes your company and wants sex from you but doesnt want the baggage of a relationship:
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 12:09pm
He's the one you need to have this discussion with - you're enjoying being with him but you want to see if you're on the same page.
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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2008
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 6:48pm
if it turned out to be just sex for him, then that would be fine with me.
iVillage Member
Registered: 12-06-2004
Tue, 01-08-2008 - 7:10pm

Are you being honest with yourself that you would be okay with sex only?

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2008
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 10:08pm
right now, all we are is sex.
iVillage Member
Registered: 06-14-2006
Thu, 01-10-2008 - 7:27pm

You are in a friends with benefits relationship and you are beginning to want more.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-01-2008
Fri, 01-11-2008 - 11:39pm
i just wanted to thank everyone for their comments, because i feel this is a subject that is difficult to discuss, but is becoming more of a popular situation.
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-10-2007
Sat, 01-12-2008 - 12:58am

I have

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-15-2003
Sun, 01-13-2008 - 12:55pm
Yes, definitely, ask him. Good luck.
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