Pianoguy suggests that the two of you get together for lunch (or coffee) and have a one-to-one chat about your feelings for each other.
If the man IS flirting with you, there has to be some sort of interest, right? What you need to find out if his attraction is MORE than 'workplace friendship.'
Just keep in mind that if the 2 of you decide to become 'an item'...you'll probably face a few 'raised eyebrows and a more than a little gossip' from at least one or two of your co-workers!
I've dated interracially and outside of my age bracket, really the thing that worries me is your work relationship... if something were to occur, would you be able to deal with the consequences at work? And PS: no one needs to know about your relationship at work if it does happen. In fact, I would keep it quiet.
But I agree with PG... go out to lunch or maybe even after work and see what's really there. Keep us posted!
I have dated out of my race at work... and everything started by going to lunch w/o anyone knowing and just getting to know each other... don't be afraid. My best advice to you is go slow take you time and see if you have chemistry with him... just keep it b/w you 2 and no one else... GOOD LUCK!!!! :-)
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slimkim4...
Pianoguy suggests that the two of you get together for lunch (or coffee) and have a one-to-one chat about your feelings for each other.
If the man IS flirting with you, there has to be some sort of interest, right? What you need to find out if his attraction is MORE than 'workplace friendship.'
Just keep in mind that if the 2 of you decide to become 'an item'...you'll probably face a few 'raised eyebrows and a more than a little gossip' from at least one or two of your co-workers!
Pianoguy
Edited 1/9/2007 11:44 am ET by slimkim4
I've dated interracially and outside of my age bracket, really the thing that worries me is your work relationship... if something were to occur, would you be able to deal with the consequences at work? And PS: no one needs to know about your relationship at work if it does happen. In fact, I would keep it quiet.
But I agree with PG... go out to lunch or maybe even after work and see what's really there. Keep us posted!
Edited 1/9/2007 11:44 am ET by slimkim4
WELL IF I WAS YOU
I WOULD LET HIM MAKE ALL THE MOVES
I KNOW YOU PROBABLY GOT THAT LITTLE THANG BUZZING AROUND IN YOUR STOMACH AND MAYBE EYOU ARE EXCITED AS WELL
I THINK SOMETIMES WOMEN MISTAKE FLIRTING FOR SOMEONE REALLY WANTING TO DATE
TRUST I BEEN IN THAT SITUATION AND IT WAS PLEASANT
JUST BECAUSE A GUY FLIRTS DONT MEAN HE WANTS TO DATE YOU
JUST KEEP THAT IN MIND TO AS WELL
Edited 1/9/2007 11:45 am ET by slimkim4
GIRL LET HIM MAKE EVERY SINGLE MOVE
IM TELLING YOU THATS HOW YOU KEEP THE POWER IN YOUR HANDS
DONT LET HIM SEE THAT YOUR WEAK IN THE KNEES HE WILL WORK IT
AND YOU MOS DEF DONT WANT TO LOSE YOUR JOB
CAUSE TRUST ME THOSE LITTLE FEELINGS YOU GOT WILL BE GONE IN A MILI SEC TRUST ON THAT
JUST THINK BEFORE YOUR REACT
slimkim4...
PG thinks this comes down to a case of "going for it" and either getting accepted or rejected.
So if you extend the invitation to the movies and you're rejected...can you handle this?
If you wish to wait until HE makes a move...then do nothing! This way you can see if he's interested in more than JUST FLIRTING WITH YOU?
Pianoguy
Edited 1/9/2007 11:46 am ET by slimkim4
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