Well she never returned my call

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Well she never returned my call
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Tue, 08-17-2004 - 10:52pm
For those of you who know about this flake that i called 8 days ago has not returned my call. I guess she was'nt interested in me after all making me a true believer that the so called "SIGNS OF INTEREST" is nothing but absolute BullShiyat. This has led me to believe that women do this to stroke they're ego's and make me want them by playing this game of cat and mouse

And no i never called her a 2nd time.

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Registered: 05-21-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 10:55pm
Hey Fab

I remember your story. I have been in this position many times. Women do this too me after i let them know that i just want to be friends. That's good you did'nt call her a second time. You put the ball in her court by leaving a message with your number and name. Any women who does'nt return that call needs counseling. There is no excuse to why she did not get your message

Tell you what Fab. Call her in 2 weeks for a second attempt. If you dont get her on the phone, just hang up. That's what i do. it lets them know your not going to play childish games

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2003
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 11:00pm
Bummer that she didn't return the call. That's just bad form. Kinda makes the rest of us look bad too.

Meanwhile, I think I'm gonna try alpha's way of meeting people - at the supermarket - seems it's the place I hang out the most lately and I can't do any worse than I've done on line. :-\

Better luck next time Fab.

Eve

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Registered: 07-17-2004
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 1:55am
Dammit

I called one of my "player" (this guy is the man) friends tonite and he asked me if that girl ever called me back. I said no. He said to call her tomorrow and leave this message

"hey___its _____, i was thinking about you today, so i thought i'd give you a call. talk to you later" and hang up. He said if she answers the phone this time, set up the date for saturday nite.

It sounds pretty good. He told me to give her the benefit of the doubt. If she doesnt return this call by next monday to delete her number and kiss her goodbye. This is what he said

im kinda confused now. what ya think? So Im back to MR nice guy and im going to call her wednesday

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Registered: 07-19-2004
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 2:01am
I would suggest to give her the call. I am not good at dating. Well, I just would like to let you know there is girl like me. I won't return the call coz I am too conservative & think guys should call. I would also think he will call again if he is really interested. In addition, you can always give the second try. If she didn't answer, then u can move on.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-25-2003
Wed, 08-18-2004 - 2:09am
hehe didn't I already tell you to give her the benefit of the doubt?

I'm kinda giggling at your pain (sorry!), coz it's apparent you're torn about what to do.

I still think you should call - it'll only be the second try, so it can't hurt that bad. If you'd have already tried a few times before, I'd say cut your losses.

Somehow though, I can't see this girl coming through for you. :-(

Make the call though, Mr Nice Guy. ;-)