What age do women settle down

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Registered: 07-17-2004
What age do women settle down
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Thu, 07-29-2004 - 3:26am
I mean just growing up and being in a "healthy" relationship?

I just know alot of women between 25-30 who need to grow up. They have unstable lifestlyes and are nothing but party animals. Most of them have cheated on all they're boyfriends in the past. When will these women see the lite?

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 3:55am
What age do women settle down? When they find the right person to do it with.

Also depends what you mean by "settle down". If you mean husband, two kids, white picket fence and 'practical' car, then I won't be settling down ever, because I don't want the kids and practical car. If you mean at what age have they had enough of partying etc? Well that all depends too.

Also depends what you mean by partying too. Partying shouldn't imply going out solely to pick up, but I think that's what you're getting at when you say party, so that's what I've based my response on.

If someone marries early, divorces years later, lives single for a bit ('parties'), then marries again, were they 'settled down' in the first marriage, or just the second one, or both? See what I mean?

A lot of guys 25-30 are the same as the women you say you've come across.

I'm curious as to your motivations behind the questions you pose. Any reason in particular? Are you searching for answers in relation to your own dealings with women? If you give specifics, you might get more specific answers back. All the questions you've asked to date have required fairly broad generalisations as answers and I don't think ultimately that's going to help you for whatever you're searching for.

Everyone 'grows up' in their own time and in their own way and everyone requires their own experiences to teach them what they need to be taught in order to grow. It just takes some people longer than others - to either learn the lessons, or find the person to 'settle' with.

I don't think there's a 'right' answer to your question.

Eve

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Registered: 01-21-2004
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 12:14pm
Some people never "settle down", because they don't want to. Which is fine. Each to his own.
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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 07-29-2004 - 1:18pm
What do you mean by settle down? You cannot generalize for all women. Some are wilder by nature, some aren't. Some women are driven by career, some by family. Some women don't want to get married during their 20's, some do.

If you're wondering what age group you should be targeting to find a woman who is ready for a long term committment, marraige and children- that's hard to say. I wouldn't be looking in a bar for a long term committment from anyome- male or female- since alcohol does strange things to people.

Seems to me a lot of your questions, fabolouz, are how you find a great girl and not be seen as either a player or just a friend. Am I right?

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