What am I doing wrong

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Registered: 07-16-2004
What am I doing wrong
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Fri, 07-16-2004 - 1:44pm
I am a 41 yo single female never married. In my dating life I have come across men who find me attractive enough to sleep with and hang out with for a time but not good enough for a relationship. I am an attractive and fit woman. I dont get it! Im very frustrated. I have a full life and I think the men that I have dated to realize that so I dont come off needy or clingy and in those cases where I did the guy ran of course. Any suggestions or am I doomed!
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Fri, 07-16-2004 - 1:55pm
Probably nothing. It's just slim pickings out there once you are over 40. I also run into a lot of men in my dating experience who aren't looking for a relationship. And those that are looking, often have flaws that are not acceptable to me (emotionally unhealthy or dishonest, for example). But, all it takes is one good guy, so I keep trying. All you can do is be yourself, work on things you're not happy with (if anything), and keep putting yourself out there.

Sheri