What are signs of a re-bounder?
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What are signs of a re-bounder?
| Tue, 09-07-2004 - 12:56pm |
I just recently started talking/dating a guy who had a long term live in relationship with his ex that ended just this last May. Does it be too soon for him to be dating or will the women be his rebound?

I did begin to date a guy who ended a 9 year relationship this past February. With him, I could just tell he was still grieving, but it's not always the case. I let him go because he just wasn't over it, but some people heal faster. It's all individual if you ask me!
I recently ended my new relationship with my boyfriend after accepting that he is still grieving over his ex. Instead of severing the ties and moving on, he continuosly feels the need to 'fix' himself. And the only way he feels he can do that is by spending time with her and God. Obviously I didn't fit anywhere into the equation and although it hurt a great deal to end things with him, you have to put yourself first and not be a doormat.