what are your view on "going back"
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| Fri, 07-09-2004 - 8:21am |
We have stayed in contact since then and have remained friends. I am 31 years old now and he has just had his 35th birthday. He has been hoping all this time that we could get back together and get married and for the first time I am actually considering it. I do still love him and we have a fantastic friendship. We is extremely well liked by my parents and friends. He is hugely successful and I would be able to have the big house, and garden that I yearn for. We have both had other relationships in our time apart but funnily enough none of them have amounted to anything for either of us. Before I met him I hadn't really had any substantial relationship comparisons and I was always thinking there was something better out there. Well, since then I have realised that there is not much out there still available. I have had my fair share of disasters and am tired of hitting my head against a wall. I have always thought that my ex was like "going home". When I got retrenched at the end of last year he was the first person I told after my father. I just wanted him to know as I knew he was always there for me at any time.
So, my questions stands.... is there life after such a long time apart?

I can't believe I have been in this mindset for so long. I could have married this guy 4 years ago and I chose to leave. And he still loves me....