What can't I just find a normal guy?
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| Mon, 01-23-2006 - 8:33am |
I don’t understand…
I am almost 34 years old. I am a medical professional. I would describe myself as a lanky, attractive redhead with a Bohemian flair. I am honest. I am witty. I am artistic. I am elegant and smart. I have been divorced for 5 years and just recently started “dating” again.
Problem: Where are all the normal guys???
I am not asking for Mr. Perfect or even Mr. Prefect’s second cousin once removed. I just seems like the guys that I meet say that they are looking to find that “one special girl”, but then we go out a few times and I think that everything is going along great….good compatibility….good conversation….good chemistry…. And then they stop calling, or don’t call as much, or say that they have only one night free this week and they are going out with “a friend”…
I am not suffocating, I am not clingy, and I am honest to a fault.
What do men really want???? I must be doing something wrong. I am supportive, I have a very busy career, and I do not have any disgusting personal habits that I am aware of. What gives???
P.S. I live in the Chicago suburbs, so if anyone has any grand ideas of where all the good men are, please advise.

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Cheryl,
In your first post, the "honest to a fault" line jumped out at me, too.
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It's got nothing to do with you. Men will only get involved if they want to settle down and have a family. If they are foot loose and fancy free, and there are a lot of women around for them to flavor, they will have a little fun with them.
Evidently you have shown that you are ready to settle down. You have met men, that for some reason or another haven't found that they want to stick around. Until you do meet someone who is ready for committment and also fancies you, you can enjoy a full life without a man. Keep trying, otherwise you will never meet 'Mr. Right. good luck
Tee hee, New York Guy, that line is all yours!
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