What could possibly have been going on h

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-31-2005
What could possibly have been going on h
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Sun, 07-31-2005 - 6:33pm

I met a guy back in June at a party. As I was leaving, he asked me if he could ask a mutual friend for my number. I told him he could.

At the party, since he said that he was new in town, I mentioned to him a social that he might be interested in. He put the web link in his blackberry.

I didn't hear from him but I came across another social group in the city that might be interested in. I e-mailed it to him as both our e-mails was on the party invite where we met each other.

He e-mailed me back thanking me for the tip but admitted that he couldn't remember me. We had a bit of an e-mail exchange in which I jogged his memory. Th event was the next night and I was going anyway with some friends. He asked me if I was going and I told him yes.

He showed up and we talked for a bit. I have to admit that excpet for when he approached me at the the bar, I didn't see him otherwise the whole evening.

Ok, this was 4 weeks ago. What could possibly have been going on here?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-10-2003
Sun, 07-31-2005 - 11:48pm
It's possible that he's met someone who has been driving him around town. He's not that new to area now, so he could be involved in social activities or work. I wouldn't wait more time for this guy to call/e-mail you. He seems not to be that interested in getting to know you. He didn't even remember you when you e-mailed him the social events the first time. I'd move on other guys.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 08-01-2005 - 10:24am
You were sending him messages about getting out there and meeting people, but you never invited him to coffee...in his place I would have thought that you were not interested in me. He could have met someone else at the party after you left and pursued her instead. There are a lot of things that could have happened.