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| Mon, 08-13-2007 - 3:31pm |
hi,
i met this guy 4th of July weekend. We went out & i slept with him on the first date. Now, I know what you're thinking not another "oh my gosh, is he going to call me/when he calls me is he only going to be interested in sex" posts. Well this one is different in the sense that i took it for what it was and if he just wanted to enjoy my company for the moment then so be it b/c i wanted the same.. well he called the next day inquiring on whether i would have dinner w/him and i agreed and we had been seeing each other ever since; during our dates, we talked about being exclusive and we both agreed that we wanted an exclusive relationship but that we were going to take it slow and see how the relationship progressed (my suggestion). so, we did and we were until yesterday...
he wanted to take me to lunch, i told him that i couldn't go b/c i made plans with my girlfriends and that i would call him when i was done. he protested that he wanted to see me and he didn't want to wait so long, i told him that i would call him when i got back. after i finished hanging out with my gf's i called him. he told me to come over, he was cooking dinner and we could have dinner together. so i did and dinner was good. afterwards, we watched a movie and then we had sex. afterwards, he basically said ok goodnight. I was like reewinnnnnnd. Naturally, I got angry and yelled and screamed but the kicker is when i said this "your penis is little and it couldn't get up" - i know- WHY did i say that b/c my feelings were hurt and i wanted him to feel like i felt. so, i left. he didn't call to apologize last night and i didn't either.
when i awoke this morning, i felt bad about our fight and i wanted to call and apologize but my pride wouldn't let me. well, 20 mins ago he called and apologized; he said that he knew i was angry and he was sorry for hurting my feelings, and that i was a really nice person and that he didn't want to leave things like that...
so, what should i do next, should i continue to see him? or should we talk about what happend and see where things go from there?
thanks,
ravishing

Okay, he was being too forceful about seeing you and wanting you to cancel your lunch plans with your friends. Then you got angry that he wanted to go to sleep after sex or just calling it a night? Then you said something insulting to him and now he has called wanting to make up.
If you want to talk to him about what happened then you could address his behavior towards you jumping when he calls. If he has a habit of wanting to call it a night after sex due to him wanting to sleep and you want more from him or the evening..then maybe you should incorporate more daytime sex. If it is just a matter of him having sex with you and then sending you out the door, like you finished "servicing" him, then you might want to talk to him about it and how that behavior makes you feel.
Chances are good he knows his penis is small and he has a hard time getting it up. So, unless he wants to talk about that, I would just apologize and move on.