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| Mon, 11-27-2006 - 12:09pm |
In may my girlfriend, of close to 4 years, broke up with me. its been close to 7 months and i hadnt met anyone new, and neither had she, but i met some one a little more than a week ago, and really like this new girl, but in the meantime a couple weeks before my ex told me she wants to get back together, i still love her, but i also like the new girl. I dont know weather to get back together with my ex, or see how stuff works out with the new one.
i dont want to hurt anyone, and i told my ex this but she is still being persistant, i dont want to ruin my friendship with either of them.
thankful for any help i can get
-some confused guy
i dont want to hurt anyone, and i told my ex this but she is still being persistant, i dont want to ruin my friendship with either of them.
thankful for any help i can get
-some confused guy

Question for you:
What did you and your ex learn from your relationship and your breakup?
Ah, there seems to be an epidemic of this going around.
I'm in a similar situation, but I am one of the two girls my ex is "confused" about.
Let me tell you, it's hard on everyone. And when I say hard I mean very painful. He is torn between an old friend, whom he dated, and me. He loves us both, but he isn't sure "where to go," so to speak. The suspsense is killing me. Not to mention, the other girl. We are both aware of what's going on (he isn't dating either of us right now). But according to him, *I* am who he wants (wanted, perhaps) until she came back into the picture, begging to get back together with him.
So, yes, this sucks. Suck for everyone involved. My only advice is be HONEST about what's going on ...with BOTH women. You have to. It's the right thing to do and you'll feel better about yourself. My ex is being honest and open, but he is way too torn/confused to handle right now, and I hate it. I love him, though, and I'm trying to be patient with his "processing things" (his words).
I hope this helps. Honest and open communication are the only two things you need to have right now. Feelings for one? Both? I don't know, that's up to you.
Let me know how it goes. I don't mind a guy's perspective of all of this.