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| Sat, 03-11-2006 - 4:23pm |
I've been friends with benefits with this guy for a very long time (about 2 years) and he now is getting serious with another girl. Though he still calls me often and when we get together it's not always about sex. I would understand if when we got together it was all about sex then I would know he is using me. Though I am starting to have feelings for him and since it is not just about sex I would like to know what he is thinking cause I don't get what's going on in his head.
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| Sat, 03-11-2006 - 5:15pm |
Wow, to be FWB for 2 years, is a long time, and it takes a whole lot of woman, to pull that off. But eventually, the emotional side kicks in, and we want more. It is normal to feel the way your feeling, especially since you've been intimate with a guy for 2 years. You might not of had the "girlfriend" title, but you did have some type of relationship with this man. It's going to be hard to let it go, since he has been a part of your life for a period of time, and you even said, the relationship didn't always entail sex. The problem you have is, he's getting serious with someone else, and there's nothing you can do about it at this point. You knew for the beginning of the relationship, what the relationship was, and just because you have feelings now, doesn't change the rules. You have to leave him alone for now. I would stop having sex with him, especially if he's getting serious with someone else. You have to wait for his move. He will let you know where you stand. You should talk with him and ask him about his relationship, because it's only fair to the new girl. You wouldn't want to be in the other girls shoes, would you? So talk with him, and since you've been close, he should be honest with you, and let you know what's going on.
