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What to do?
| Fri, 08-13-2004 - 4:12pm |
I have been in a relationship with a guy for the past 4 years and it has been nothing but problems. He cheated on me in the second year and then when I started seeing someone else he wanted to mend the relationship. I keep giving him a chance and he ends up cheating or leaving and then wanting to come back. Now that I tell him that I do not want to give him another chance he forces the issue of "starting over".I have recently starting seeing another guy that I have known for about 4 months and he takes me out and treats me the way I knew I always deserved to be treated, I really want to give the new guy a chance but the ex will not leave me alone and says he will never leave. I dont know how to get him out of my life and it is really dragging me down.

Continue seeing your new wonderful man and don't give the ex the time of day. If he calls, hang up, if he shows up at your house, don't answer the door. If he shows up at your work, ask someone to excort him out.
It will take a while for him to understand that you are serious THIS time because you've always given in and gone back to him in the past. Stick to your guns!
For one thing, never allow yourself to be dragged down by that man again.