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| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 7:42pm |
Ok. My boyfriend of 10 months and I had a huge talk yesterday. He told me he is afraid we are on the road to self-destructing. We don't fight so that is different. He feels he is drifting from me like he is in a row boat with no paddle and I am standing on the dock. He doesn't want to lose me because I am the woman he wants to be with and he knows that if I go he will never find another one like me. I don't want to lose him. He is so afraid of disappointing me and making me have a bad life. We are both young (22 and 23) We fell in love fast. We were both very passionate in the beginning. We have really settled into each other now. It's also the summer and he has been taking classes at the college all summer and I did at the beginning so we have been really busy with that. When we go out on dates, it's mainly just watching something like a movie or t.v. It's like we have been so busy that when we go out we just sit there focusing on something else. He kind of feels that we are focusing on each other too much, but I see the opposite. We really love each other. He says he doesn't feel like the man I fell for and hasn't for the past couple of months. I want him back and he wants to come back. I think we are trying to redefine why we are in a relationsip. Do you have any advice for us? Should we do couples counciling? I don't know.
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| Mon, 07-26-2004 - 9:51pm |
Apparently your BF is passing through a hard time himself. He feels he's not the man you fell in love with and he's afraid you'll have a bad life with him...Perhaps he's depressed. This should be investigated on why he's feeling how he's feeling. Go to counseling, him himself and both as a couple.
