What to do?

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Registered: 06-02-2004
What to do?
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Thu, 06-17-2004 - 2:24pm
I've been seeing someone who is basically everything I've always wanted in a guy, he's great and we're so alike, only I don't find myself that attracted to him and I don't know why. What should I do?
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Registered: 06-17-2004
In reply to: sciencekills
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 2:32pm
you can always stay friends and see if he is really the man of your dreams..if he is, you will know it. thats good that you have found someone that is like you. so dont let him go until you know for sure whats wrong and why you feel this way.
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Registered: 08-07-2003
In reply to: sciencekills
Fri, 06-18-2004 - 11:50am

I think lack of attraction is a dealbreaker.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-18-2004
In reply to: sciencekills
Fri, 06-18-2004 - 12:16pm
Im 27 and I believe attraction is a big deal in a relationship. My ex everyone said was model looking georgeous, I thought he was ok. It didnt work out. My new boyfriend to me is extremely attractive and everyone thinks he's ok. Make sure theirs no sparks their before you shew him away though. Personality is what makes a guy attractive in the first place, and then sometimes you start to notice the physically attractive assets.
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Registered: 05-26-2004
In reply to: sciencekills
Tue, 06-22-2004 - 1:26pm
Since you seem to be into science according to your handle, you know better than anyone, chemistry matters.

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Registered: 06-20-2004
In reply to: sciencekills
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 2:44pm
If you don't find yourself attracted to him, then how can he be everything you've ever wanted?