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| Fri, 03-12-2004 - 10:02pm |
Hello I have never done this kind of thing before but I wanted to know others opinions becuase maybe I am looking at it wrong, so here goes. I had a relationship with my boss( it is a small business) about 4 months ago, we really got along awesome and really clicked on more than just the physical level. But then his wife moved back in due to financial problems so we called it quits. Well now she has moved back out and he has filed for a divorce, but the thing of it is, is that we slept together about three weeks ago and he had siad somethings that had made it sound like he wanted to get back together soon. And now that his wife is gone he is acting weird around me and not returnign phone calls. He still comes into work to see me all the time and flirts alot lately but the phone calling thing is throwing me off, does he want to be with me anymore or not? I really do care about him and I am hoping itis just from everything that is going on with the divorce and everything that he is acting weird towords me . Can anyone explain or have any suggestions about my situation ? Please help
Thank you So very much to anyone who had any ideas
LOve keegan24
Thank you So very much to anyone who had any ideas
LOve keegan24

I am sure he likes you and would like to continue a sporatic, sexual relationship if you want to let him use you like that. But I really think what he wants is to enjoy his new single status and NOT be tied down for a while. How long was he married? I'm wondering if he was trying to prove to himself "he still has it" when he "clicked" with you. Big ICK factor, but that's what I really think.
It's really best to stay away from someone who is married and the wife is moving out and then back in and then back out again. Some on this board suggest that you will be best if you wait until he is divorced for at least a year - and in your case I would whole heartedly agree with that concept - except I'm going to be even harsher and say stay away from him period, forever.
I thank you for your advice, at the time when we were dating he had been seperated for 2 years and was already in the process of divorce so I didn't consider it an affair becuase the marraige was already over, but I do appreciate you advice thank you hun
keegan24
Take care!