What do I do????!!!!
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| Thu, 03-04-2004 - 6:31pm |
Friday...the first time I don't hear from him at all - all day. I did run into him and told him that I was leaving to go home because the kitchen was flooding from the rain. He never called and he knew that I was sad and distressed over everything. I will admit that I messaged him that I was hurt he didn't take 2 minutes to call me and see if everything was all right.
Saturday...I called him late in the afternoon. We ended up getting into a HUGE fight. He said that he was still angry with me for asking if I was an FTF (hope everyone knows what that means) – the conversation about being an FTF is kind of what started the ball rolling into our fight. Things were very, very ugly and we both said things that were not nice and downright awful and for the most part I believe that we didn't mean.
Honestly, I was a WRECK. I have been miserable that I haven’t heard from him after our fight. I left him several messages apologizing for my angry words...and sent him an email apologizing. Asked if we could do what we had said and work on our friendship. Told him that I wouldn’t contact him anymore – no email, no text message, no calls. I have stuck to my plan…still no response from him.
At this point – it is pretty obvious that we broke up – or whatever. I am still a wreck but each day is getting a little easier.
THEN…
On Wednesday – I checked my email then ran out to my car – was gone no more than 15 minutes. My boss told me that he thought he “Aaron” had called but when whoever it was heard the bosses voice – they hung up. My boss said that the number that popped up on the caller id looked like it belonged to the company that “Aaron” works for. Hmmmm…I checked my email and he had 2 way text messaged me in that 15 minutes that I was gone and this is what the text said:
No hard feelings. It’s all good. I think we can still be friends.
At first I was ecstatic…he missed me, wanted to talk to me, to make things better. Then I started to over-analyze the message. Sounds so cold and distant. Like “Whatever.” Not sure how to take it.
I did not respond to his message. It has been 24 hours since I received it. I have not heard from him again. No call, no other text messages, no email.
I asked some friends (male and female) and the majority said not to respond…wait until he contacts me again before responding. One male friend said that I should at least acknowledge the text…but just keep response short and sweet – “got your message. Thanks.” But I just don’t know. Should I message him or wait??? If we indeed “broke up” we have some things that we need to discuss and stuff that needs to be given back to each other – plus our companies do work with each other…there is a for sure chance that we will run into each other in the building or at an event.
| Thu, 03-04-2004 - 8:54pm |
| Thu, 03-04-2004 - 10:25pm |
