What to do???? Something is missing.
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| Thu, 04-19-2007 - 12:09pm |
I don't know where to start. I am a recently divorced woman with children. I recently met two different men, who knew of each other for the last 4 months. I dated both VERY casually. Finally I asked "S" to leave because he couldn't respect my sexual boundaries, and he seemed to "play" with my emotions. I really liked the chemistry, but I couldn't deal with the drama that seemed to accompany it.
Fast forward to today, I have been dating "A" since the beginning. So when he realized I kicked "S" to the curb he has intensified his attention. Granted he is "safe" and doesn't do anything to disrespect me. On paper he is quite a catch, and is exactly what I am/was looking for. A few things are keeping me from getting more serious about the relationship. I hate to be cliche, but he just isn't my "soulmate".
1)Physically I am NOT attracted to him.
2)He doesn't have a good sense of humor.
3)He is a LOUSY kisser (SORRY-I cannot imagine being intimate with him)
4)He is a workaholic.
He has flat out stated he loves me, at which point I winced. He also has alluded to marriage more than once. He has asked me somewhere where he has bought tickets to something in June AND July for us. How do I tell him this may not lead where he wants? I hate to burst his bubble, but I get more cold feet by the day. I keep thinking something will happen and we will get more comfortable with each other and the sense of humor and attraction will just "show up".
SO WHAT DO I DO???????
HELP
nuday07
| Thu, 04-19-2007 - 12:30pm |
| Thu, 04-19-2007 - 12:50pm |

