What do you do when you life is screwed
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What do you do when you life is screwed
| Wed, 09-08-2004 - 2:51pm |
It may be an off topic post but I found that here is the biggest traffic. Well, what do you do when you life is screwed in many ways? Like job wise, relationship wise......When you don't feel any power. You just sitting there and watching life passing by. You're jumping for one job to another just to make some income. You haven't been in relationship for so long. All your date seem to have interest in you for the first 3-4 dates that they disappear. All you can think is how miserable your life is. You stooped enjoying things you used to like. Next thing you see you drink every night just to relax and forget your pain. You feel so unhappy.......What would you do? I think I'm falling apart.......

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Once you have those thoughts on paper, you can then start writing some goals down as to what you want to do now to improve your situation.
I know it's hard to be sad, and sometimes we just need to wallow in our misery a little. But don't forget that there are positive things out there and people who are worse off than us. Do whatever it takes to help yourself get out of that loop of sadness. Seek out friends to talk with, look in the phone book for counselling groups or free sessions. Just remember everyone feels low at some point in their lives, it's just what they do about it that makes us all unique. Personally I have found that getting my thoughts on to paper allows a certain release from them so I can move on.
Another thing that can help is to change your routine. Instead of going straight home, take a little more scenic route. Hang out in the library sometime, or a coffee shop. Doing something different will help alleviate the boredom. Look through the community centre listings to find out what programs they are offering. If a class looks interesting, sign yourself up and try it out. Yoga may be good for releasing tension. There's also art and cooking classes you could try.
I just really encourage you to keep trying to find your way back up. We are here for you if you need to talk.
((((HUGS))))
Alison
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You might have clinical depression and if you do you need profession help. That is when you have nothing in your life to be unhappy about, but you still can't feel happy.
As far as not being able to keep a boyfriend, there could be many reasons. They may feel your unhappiness and do not want to continue being around you.
You need a good professional to help you understand why you feel the way you do and help you to have a look into your past and how it has effected your feelings. good luck
There are church support groups. Maybe you should go to a church and the pastor could help you.
There are places you just have to find them. good luck
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