What do you guys think?

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Registered: 08-04-2003
What do you guys think?
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Thu, 07-01-2004 - 11:18am
I posted this on a couple boards, I feel like I need as much feedback

as I can get. I may be overanalyzing, but he still hasn't called.

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some of you will recall me writing about this guy. He had an interest in me a while

back, but I was otherwise occupied at the time. Over the last year I have started to

see how great he is. He was always happy to hear from me. He was very touchy-feely and

flirty. But he would never initiate contact. I had given up.

So Friday night I went to a friends beach barbecue and he was there.

I drank entirely too much and we ended up in the hottub. While we were there things

got quite cozy, and at one point he looked at me and said

"do you like being like this with me?". I was so shocked when he said it that I blurted

out "what?". He told me "You heard what I said."

I few minutes later I got my nerve and said "Yes, I am ok being like this with you".

So to make this short we kissed, and I don't mean just a little bit. We kissed in this

hottub for probably 2 hours.

He wanted me to go home with him but I knew I would regret it later so I declined.

He called me 1/2 hr later (2:30am) and said

"I want to see you, just take it for what it is".

The next day he called me again to apologize for the drunken phone call the night before.

I could tell he wanted to talk about what happened but I was terribly hung-over and

I totally chickened out.

I emailed him Sunday and apologized for not making the conversation easier the day after

when he called, and then told him I would like to see him this week.

He hasn't called. He told me he had plans Wednesday and Thursday, and I already

knew I would see him last night. So when I saw him last night he said sort of rushed,

"I haven't had time to call".

Should I assume he is blowing me off?

I say that because I have heard that if a guy doesn't call within a day or 2

you probably are not a priority for him.

But he seemed to be interested a few days ago?

Anyone's input would be appreciated.

Thank you!












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Registered: 08-04-2003
Thu, 07-01-2004 - 4:46pm
Now am I being blown off?

He just called, I will quote what he said.

"I know we need to talk some time...we were just in the moment....

I hope you don't think I was trying to take advantage of you"

He was on his way somewhere else.

I told him we can save the discussion for another day.

He said "thats fair".

Something tells me we will never talk about it, that was my official blow off.

What do you think, I really need to know.




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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 07-01-2004 - 7:05pm
Only time will tell but yes I think you're right.

Sheri