What do you think?

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Registered: 02-03-2006
What do you think?
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Fri, 02-03-2006 - 11:23pm
I have been friends with this guy for about six years. We had a very short relationship when we first meet and have been friends ever since. Over the years we have realized that we still had some kind of feeling for each other. However we have both always been in a relationship. This past fall I broke things off with the person I was with and this guy and I decided to try and see if things could work. The thing is he now lives in California. So for two months we talked online and over the phone and became close again. This past week I went out to visit him and he was a compleate jerk. It was like he did not want me there. Now since we have been friends for so long I would think he could at least treat me as a friend if nothing else but no. He ignored me and made me feel like I was in the way. Now he will not tell me what happen or what changed. Any ideas or opions. This is someone i cared about and he just tossed me aside. I need some help to understand.
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Registered: 11-24-2004
Sat, 02-04-2006 - 1:55am
What a jerk! I have no idea what was going through his mind, but some guys act like jerks to convey certain messages. They don't want to have a conversation about the r-ship not going the way they expected, so they would rather act so nasty, that the girl will leave on her own. That is a very immature to handle things, but that's how some guys deal with these things.

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Registered: 05-31-2005
Sat, 02-04-2006 - 10:02pm

I'm really sorry you're going through this. But honestly, there's nothing to understand. His behavior was immature and uncalled for. You deserve better, period, end of story. Do not even put an ounce of energy trying to figure him out. Write him off and move on. If he is not enough of a friend to speak to you about what is bothering him, then do you really want him in your life on any level?


Kerry