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| Thu, 07-01-2004 - 5:48pm |
Hi, to you all. I met this guy thru the internet (dating online). It has been about a month since we started e-mailing each other, then we talked on the phone and it's been two weeks since I met him in person and everything has been like "Too good to be true".He lives 1 1/2 hours from where I live (in another state) but he travels to my state like 4 times a week to see me because he says that he already misses me. I wanted some advice from you since everything that I have share with this guy seems like we knew each other a long time ago (we both feel the same). He has been the most caring man I've ever met, with his actions I have perceive that he is a great human being. He has share A LOT of interest in me. Introduce me to his family and wants to meet mine. I have even stayed in his house since we live so far from each otther (without going all the way in terms of intimacy). He has tell me a million times that he wants this to last forever and that he is already falling in love with me. And what we feel when we are together is something that I can not explain to you, is too beatiful. He has even tell me that if everything still the way they are (me and him getting along so well) he won't hesitate to pop up the question in a few months. I know this all seem like crazy. I have tell him to take things slow since there are so many things that we don't know about each other. And I don't want to get hurt at the end. I'm really falling for this guy (he's 43 and I'm 33 ). I will like to receive some input from you guys since I feel like I'm in heaven and I can feel that he is too and he has let me know that not only by his words but by his actions as well, but at the same time I'm scared cause it seems to good to be true. I'm desperately waiting for your point of view on this.
P.s Sorry for my english!

It takes at least 4-6 months of regualar dating to even BEGIN to know whether someone is right for you. I'm not saying things can't work out, but it's WAY too early to tell, and a fast start turning out well is MUCH more the exception than the rule.
Keep telling yourself it's very early, and that he SEEMS great but you don't know him yet. I'd also slow things down to seeing each other 2-3 times a week MAX.
Generally, if things seem too good to be true, they are.
Sheri