What does he want our status to be?

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Registered: 09-08-2004
What does he want our status to be?
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Sat, 11-19-2005 - 2:26pm
I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks. It took him over a year to ask me out because he thought that I wouldn't be interested and that I wasn't attractive to him. Well the other night we were out and he asked me if I wanted him to be my boyfriend? I told him that would take me getting to know him better to be able to make that decision. Did he ask me this because he wants to be exclusive or do you think he just wants to know what my intentions are with our relationship? Thanks for your advice.
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Registered: 04-04-2003
Sat, 11-19-2005 - 4:50pm

To me, it sounds like he was just seeing where your head is. He probably doesn't want to do something to freak you out. It sounds like he has had a big crush on you and doesn't want to mess up by pushing you too quickly. You were clear that you want to spend more time getting to know him, which was smart. So either way he knows where he stands.

Seya

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 11-21-2005 - 3:11pm

seya79...

PG agrees with you 100%!!!

Katieann's companion was "testing the waters!" And the response she offered to his suggestion WAS PERFECT!

Pianoguy