What does it mean? does he love me?
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What does it mean? does he love me?
| Tue, 04-06-2004 - 10:32pm |
I have met a guy for 2 months ( total 3 dates for 2 months). Last date was my Birthday. Thing that he never called me, and I decided to call him and ask him out for the weekend of my Birthday. He was okay and took me out for dinner. That was our 3rd date. He gave me a birthday gift with a set of sleepwear and a mint box set. What did he mean when he gave me such a gift? please tell me what a guy think about the relationship when he decides to give the sleepwear gift to his date. A confusing thing that he gave me a Birthday card with the words 'FRIENDS" not "FOR SPECIAL PERSON" or "FOR HER"...nothing said 'love'......I dont' know what he thinks about me? I am an Asian, for our culture, we bielive that when a kiss happens, means a boyfriend and girlfriend ralationship. But he is american, I am Asian American, and we kissed and had some further closer relationship (but no sex).....but it meaned 'friend' to him?????? I am so tired of this relationship and I don't know if he is interested in me? but WHY NOT CALL ME??????

I think the two of you are having a serious case of different expectations due to your cultural differences.
I'm not sure you *have* much of a relationship at this point.
Since last Friday, he never calls me after the birthday. I dropped him a text message to say 'thank you' for that night and he has ever returned me. I think I will listen to your advice and give him time, but I don't know it's worth it????? I DO REALLY LIKE HIM.....I want a healthier relationship but he does not want to develop. Don't you think? Please help!