What does it mean when a guy says.......

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Registered: 07-30-2004
What does it mean when a guy says.......
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Mon, 08-02-2004 - 4:11pm
What does it mean when a guy says one thing and acts a different way? Such as treats you like a girlfriend (touching/hugging/kissing/flirting) and wants to spend most of his time with you BUT then comes back to say that he does not want a girlfriend. Does this mean he really isn't interested in me or that he is scared of something? I was told that when men usually say that, they are not interested, but there is something different about this situation. Everytime we are together in public or just at home we act like a couple or flirting teenagers.

Why are some men so hard to read and others you can see right through. I understand that women can be just as confusing but we usually at least get our point across straight forward.

Replies are greatly appreciated. Thanks.
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Registered: 07-02-2004
Mon, 08-02-2004 - 4:36pm
I think you should listen to the words. He does not want a girlfriend. If you like what you've got enjoy it. But if you want a boyfriend, look elsewhere.

MB

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Registered: 05-17-2004
Mon, 08-02-2004 - 4:38pm
This is the crap women do! Most women have a tendency to beat around the bush and can never come straight forward about anything. Men do

This guy sounds like a women. He's confused and has baggage. I come across these type of women who behave this way and i dump them. Why deal with the drama?

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Registered: 07-30-2004
Mon, 08-02-2004 - 7:14pm
I totally agree with you, but in this case I like this guy and he is not being very forward with me which I suppose seems to be a womans tendencies. But I wish he would come out and just tell me if he wants me around or not. Cause I would find someone new and move on in that case. But I want to at least give him a chance.