What happened?

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-16-2005
What happened?
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Tue, 08-16-2005 - 8:13pm
Hi all. I'm new here. Here's my situation. I haven't dated in many years and I met a man last year and we hit it off but never went out. This past April he called out of the blue and invited me out. We've been seeing each other since, but last week he emailed me and said he was trying not to get too close at this particular point in his life. This was immediately after one of the best nights we'd had together. This guy has never been married and has not had a relationship in the year and a half I've known him. What happened? We're both 49.
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Registered: 11-24-2004
Tue, 08-16-2005 - 9:23pm
The man is probably not interested in a relationship that is too involved. At 49, he is probably a confirmed bachellor. He may have sensed that you would like something more than just casual dating and occasional sex. Since the lovemaking was really great and the two of you connected, he probably became afraid of your relationship growing and you're wanting to move onto the next step.

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Registered: 08-15-2005
Tue, 08-16-2005 - 10:33pm
nothing u can do anything about. if you are both on two different pages, then it is better to resolve it right now, and either get on the same page, or go apart,
than be forever confused and even more hurt later.