what happened

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Registered: 12-10-2004
what happened
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Fri, 12-10-2004 - 8:48am
HI there I am new here and maybe someone can give me some insite. Seeing this guy for the last 2 1/2 months get along great, enjoy being together. The other day we were together and I gave him a nice card and a note inside telling him I care for him and glad we meant. Nothing about loving him or commitment. He really liked it and was happy I told him how I felt. Now we have talked only 1 time since that. We talked every night and now I am thinking what did I do. He called me the other day and sounded happy as always and chatted as usual. I am really sad thinking I may never see him again and just wonna know what I said was it wrong should I have kept it to myself...
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Registered: 03-26-2003
In reply to: babyboo68
Fri, 12-10-2004 - 10:00am

babyboo68...

Welcome to the board! You'll find many ivillagers to chat with.

It's just one man's opinion, but Pianoguy thinks that you and your b/f probably "talked too much" over the course of 2.5 months...and he probably ran out of stuff to say?

Then again, your b/f might have thought the card (which I think was a nice gesture) could've been an indication that YOU wanted to get really serious....and perhaps he wasn't ready to reciprocate. So this might have been why the phone calls suddenly ended?

So why expect him to become completely 'non-communicado??'

Instead...let your friendship with each other GROW! You can do this by just being your charming, vivacious self!!! The man isn't necessarily going to 'write you off' if he's still calling you, right?

Best wishes and warm thoughts...

Pianoguy

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Registered: 05-22-2003
In reply to: babyboo68
Fri, 12-10-2004 - 12:30pm
what did the card say though the actually card not the note. Was it a friendship card or a romantic card?
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Registered: 12-10-2004
In reply to: babyboo68
Fri, 12-10-2004 - 9:09pm
The card was just a smiley face on the front and said "just thought I would let you know" and then inside " I like you and care about you and I am glad we meant. thats it, no love nothing or anything else. He sat there looking at it smiling and reading it a few times then put it on the front of the fridge. And then came and hugged me and said it was so nice and thankyou so much. Its not like he didn;t know how I felt before, we both had stated how much we enjoy each other.