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| Sun, 10-24-2004 - 7:37pm |
i was dating this guy for over two months now. I met him in nyc when i was living with my sister. We hit it off really well and on the first date we ended up sleeping together. I didnt think he would call me again, but he did and we kept talking even though he goes to school in massachusetts and i go to school in albany. two weeks after we left one another we came back down to the city to see one another and went on a date and did not sleep with one another. He and I were very affectionate with one another and from there i worried if maybe my feelings were getting too serious too fast. We left on really good terms. Now up until two weeks ago, we continued to talk on the phone, then he came to visit me for the weekend. I didnt even ask him to come and visit me, he asked me if it was alright. anyways the weekend went really well, except for one moment when he stayed up late playing a game in bed, obviously because something was bothering him. but when i asked he said it was nothing. for the rest of the weekend, we spent hours talking and spending time with one another. he has seemed to disappear, ive called him twice and he has not responded, his phone is off. I dont know what to do, i was thinking maybe something happened to him, but i also want to be realistic..i dont have common friends so there is no one i can call. he was just here and spent the whole weekend with me and everything went really well, he even spent his money to come see me, which means alot cause he works and goes to school, and sends some of his money home, so he could have spent it on something else. Im just really confused. help!!!!!!
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| Sun, 10-24-2004 - 10:23pm |
Lord knows why men disappear without a phone call, but the only thing I can tell you is that he has your number, and your just going to have to wait and see what happens. Don't stop your life, continue what your doing, and trust me it's going to be hard, because your mind will not let you rest, but because you can't reach him you just have to wait. But, if he calls you, ask him straightforward what happened, and let him know, you didn't appreciate him not calling you after you spent a weekend him, and he should be considerate, but if he gives you some bs story then let it go, because there is never an excuse for a man not to call you and tell you something. Cut him loose if you feel his story was full of crap, it'll save you heartache later on, and once you allow man to disappoint you with small things like a phone call, the small things become large, and your feelings will get hurt. Good luck!
