What happened between me and him?
Find a Conversation
| Tue, 11-08-2005 - 10:58pm |
Hi, All. Hi, Mr. Answer Man. Good evening.
I knew this guy M through a friend who works in the same company with him. We only saw each other maybe three times at seminars held by the company. We did not talk much since we were both busy and my friend is not on a good term with him. Two weeks ago, all of us went to LA to attend conventions held by the company. I went with him and two other friends to Disneyland. We had lots of fun and were very happy. Then he started putting his arms around my shoulder and later my waist, being extremely protective and attentive towards me. I was very scared by all the rides. He gave me his hand to hold onto when I was scared. He told me something like "one day, we are going to be the parents" when he looked at little kids who ran around. He is a good-looking and charming guy. I am a beautiful girl too. So everything seemed so wonderful. We went to a night club to dance that night. We hugged and kissed each other gently. Later I was so high that I dragged him to a swimming pool at 3AM. It was so cold but we swam like crazy. He was taking care of me the whole time since I was very tipsy. Lots of fun!
However, the next day I felt so embarrassed about what we did the night before. Brought up as an Asian girl, I was taught to be more reserved and traditional. Yesterday I was drunk, but today I was sober and felt awkward. I did not even want to see him that day. But he wanted me to accompany him to the conventions which don't interest me at all. I was there for a while but left eventually. Instead I went to downtown Disney by myself. He was very cross when I called him the next day since he gave a speech at the convention without me being there for him. I felt bad but he never informed me of a speech he was going to give. And we barely knew each other. How am I supposed to know that he needed me so much? He said he would call me when we get back but he has not.
I heard from my friends that he and his ex broke up just very recently. They broke up and made up several times. I am now worried. Maybe I should stay away from him even if he calls. I don't know what happened. It was like a dream. Please give me some ideas. Thank u very much.

I think what happened is you met a guy
Start
You were drunk, he was probably drunk, you had a good time, good for you. But in the cold light of the next day things seemed different. You aren't obligated to spend time with somebody you just met. This man seems a little controlling.
Call him up and tell him what happened, but be careful with this man. The fact that he showed anger isn't a good sign.