What happened? Should I ask him?

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Registered: 09-01-2004
What happened? Should I ask him?
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Wed, 09-01-2004 - 11:38pm
I met a guy about 2 months ago at a gathering. He called and asked me out. Every things were superb on our dates. We talked and even though I didn't really knows him (we never talk when we were not on dates), I have some feelings for him. On the third date, we kissed passionately (but we never syas the "L" word). After the third date, we still went out on dates (2-3 times a weeks)and I thought he is interested to proceed with the relationship. But after two weeks from the third date, we stop going out (he stopped asking me out). I called him on his mobile a few times but his responds were very cold (like talking to a friend). Is he not interested in me anymore? Should I tell him how I feel (even though I might not get the answer that I want)? Or should I forget about him and move on? Please help!!
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Registered: 05-26-2004
Thu, 09-02-2004 - 9:02am
If his response is cold, and he isnt calling
Lilypie Baby Days

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Thu, 09-02-2004 - 5:23pm
Sounds like he found a new friend- a female one, and he wants to pursue that. Guys aren't very good at telling a girl they are dating that they are interested in someone else, so they just stop calling. Of course the girl then gets confused cause there's no closure to anthing and they wonder what's going on.

Forget this guy and find another one to date. If he does give you a call in the future, you don't have to see him again. It's your call at that point.

Alison

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