WHAT HE DON'T KNOW

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Registered: 08-07-2004
WHAT HE DON'T KNOW
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Sat, 08-07-2004 - 8:15am
I MET HIM A LITTLE OVER A MONTH AGO AND NOW I HAVE THE HOTS FOR HIM. BUT HE SAYS THAT HE JUST WANTS TO BE FRIENDS. PLUS, HE IS TALKING TO MY BEST FRIENDS THEN HE IS ME AND THEY SAY THAT THERE IS NOTHING GOING ON BETWEEN THEM. I DON'T KNOW WHO TO TRUST.
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Registered: 06-05-2004
Sat, 08-07-2004 - 2:13pm
Hi Anna,

Don't invest any time into this guy. If he just wants to be friends, even though you have the hots for him, it's not going to go anywhere; it takes two to tango. If you are saying that he talks to your best friends more than he does you, then it's pretty obvious he doesn't feel the same way you do. Your friends tell you there is nothing going on between them and you mention that you don't know who to trust... You are not going out with him so how can this be a trust issue? I understand if you are saying that you don't trust that your friends are being honest but as he isn't dating you, you shouldn't be getting upset over something that isn't there anyway. Please don't take it the wrong way.. what I am saying is that you shouldn't pursue this, he doesn't seem interested. I myself know that not every guy that I have ever liked felt the same for me. Let it go. ;)