What is his deal??
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What is his deal??
| Fri, 04-16-2004 - 11:14pm |
i met this guy a month ago at a dealership. i was interested in buying a new car, so i set up an appointment with him but never showed up(was busy with work and forgot) well a week later i called him up apologizing and my friend and i ended bringing him cake and sushi for luch because i felt bad for last week.Well we ended up going out to the movies(my friend asked him if he was up for joining us and he said yes). Well we ended up hanging out several more time we got intimate but never had sex, whenever we got even close he would stop. Well he ended up not calling anymore or even picking up his phone when i call. At first my friend and i thought it was because we hurt his feelings...well let me explain we joke around a lot and while his brother was visiting my friend would say to his little brother "hey is your brother always this boring?" and some other things.So we just figured he stopped calling because we were too mean. But then recently i would call and text message him and he would never call back, we then my friend assume that he was just trying to be friends with us because he was trying to sell us a car. wll i called him up asking about the loan issue and stuff and guess what he called right back, but his excuse was he's been too busy with work and his motorcycle class. Well i gave him the benfit of the doubt and believed that he indeed was just busy. Well today i text message him that we should get together and go see a movie but i also added that i had a few questions about the loan. well he did call back but to say that he was gonna be busy but i could call him up and ask my questions about the loan. but the weird thing was i didn't even mention a night and for him to get back to me when he was free. it seems like hes avoiding me and that he was just trying to be friendly because he wanted to sell me a car. But he is so genuinely nice, and for some reason i really like him. Do you think he's just a B-Sing and was just pretending to be friendly or did we really hurt his feelings and his afraid to hang out again??Should i continue trying to hang out with him or should i just drop him?? please any explanation or comments would really help. i'm so confused. thanks.

I would leave this man alone. Buy your car and move on to someone who expresses interest in dating you.