what kind of game is this??
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what kind of game is this??
| Mon, 08-20-2007 - 2:56pm |
ok so here is my story. I was still with my ex when I met my friend's boyfriend's brother who is my age. At the time we were both seeing someone so nothing happened. a couple months later he became single and me and my then bf were having major relationship issues. one night i went out with my girlfriend, her boyfriend, his friend and his brother just showed up. durring the night they left me to go outside to smoke and i stayed inside. My friend's boyfriend's brother just came up to me out of now where and started talking to me. then at the end of the night when i was leaving he made sure he said goodbye to me. a couple days later my friend told me her bf's brother had been asking about me and said to bring me around a lot more. He knew I had a bf but he still wanted me to hang out with them more. so i got interested, and i ended up texting him one night and he said that he was very happy that i texted him and he made it sound like he really liked me. my friend was also texting with him and told him he had better not hurt me and he said he wouldn't that he wanted to make me happy and all this other stuff. He told her that i could text him whenever i wanted b/c he didn't want to get in trouble with my bf.
I went out one night with my bf his friend and my other friend and my first friend decided to drop by with her bf and his friends and i was told his brother heard about this out and just had to come with. later that night i broke up with my bf and the next mroning i texted my friends brother to say that he could text or call whenever b/c i was single now and he replied with what we have to talk more about this ill text you later. i waited all day and he never texted back so i texted him that night just saying hi and the breakup never came up in the conversation. i also playfully was like "last night was a little awkward..lol" and he was like " lol y was that" i didn't know how to respond b/c i didn't know if he wanted me to say b/c he was there and that i liked him..so i was just like b/c all you guys just showed up. what should i have said to that?? then that weekened i wanted to see if he wanted to hang out and he said sure but he ended up blowing me off.
what's his deal? was this all just a game to him or is he just not that into me anymore? we haven't talked that much, only through texting and barely at all face to face. is he just shy?? i mean i was told that he was the type that waits for girls to come to him, and when he came up and talked to me it was a huge deal to him... im so confused! but i dont want to give up..im having fun with this
I went out one night with my bf his friend and my other friend and my first friend decided to drop by with her bf and his friends and i was told his brother heard about this out and just had to come with. later that night i broke up with my bf and the next mroning i texted my friends brother to say that he could text or call whenever b/c i was single now and he replied with what we have to talk more about this ill text you later. i waited all day and he never texted back so i texted him that night just saying hi and the breakup never came up in the conversation. i also playfully was like "last night was a little awkward..lol" and he was like " lol y was that" i didn't know how to respond b/c i didn't know if he wanted me to say b/c he was there and that i liked him..so i was just like b/c all you guys just showed up. what should i have said to that?? then that weekened i wanted to see if he wanted to hang out and he said sure but he ended up blowing me off.
what's his deal? was this all just a game to him or is he just not that into me anymore? we haven't talked that much, only through texting and barely at all face to face. is he just shy?? i mean i was told that he was the type that waits for girls to come to him, and when he came up and talked to me it was a huge deal to him... im so confused! but i dont want to give up..im having fun with this

He gave you the impression that he was interested in you by his behavior. Did he ever did come right out and tell you that he was interested in dating you? If so, then he's a creep to bail out on you now. I hope you did not break up with your BF because of this other guy's flirtation. Men have become very fickle these days...kinda like how women used to be for years.
Any one of many things could be going on here. He could have met someone else by the time you broke up with your BF, he could have just enjoyed the flirtation, or maybe he decided later on that you two were not right for each other.
You really need to ask him why he has run cold on you.