what makes a guy want a bootycall vs.rel
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what makes a guy want a bootycall vs.rel
| Tue, 10-30-2007 - 3:11am |
Hi, I'm a nurse, and around two years ago I started talking personally to one of the doctors that I worked with who I had a crush on. Before that, I knew he may have liked me or thought i was attractive because of the way he looked at me at work.

There is a key difference in how men and women approach love and commitment:
Women fall in love and
Toni
There is nothing wrong with either person, but if there's no connection there just isn't.
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This is called 'playing it safe'. Not stating your own feelings because you don't think they are reciprocated is being safe. Not taking a chance and stating what you want when you aren't sure you will get it is playing it safe. When you are in an open and receptive place, you are not afraid of looking silly, not getting or otherwise losing something or someone. And when you operate from a place of fear rather than love, yes, you do often have regrets.
Rather than regret what you didn't do - learn from this. KNOW clearly what you want your life to look like. What kind of relationship you want and what kind of partner you want to share it all with. When you KNOW these things clearly, you are less willing to walk away from opportunities to have them and you are also less willign to compromise and get/be/remain in a situation that doesn't fit.
Doing these things will open you up to be receptive to others and to more clearly see what is and isn't possible.
Toni
I'm sure there may be feelings of regret of not finding out more...but...if he was someone who you really wanted to have a relationship with you wouldnt have let that opportunity pass you by. There will be another man who will cross your path one day who will be a better fit for you.