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What is My Problem?
| Wed, 05-26-2004 - 11:30am |
OK, so maybe this isn't much of a problem. My roblem is that I am sick of all the adjectives people use to describe me. I am nice, sweet, cute. It's all I ever hear, and I don't fish for them and I have a pretty good self-image about myself. I truly believe I am dateable.
But I am not dating. I just had a guy tell me "You're smart and attractive and fun to be with *but*..." and all I could think was "What the Hell?" It makes me sick hearing people say they like me BUT I can not seem to find any guy willing to date me to give me a chance. I'd hate to think I'm goign to go the "bitter, cynical, snarky" route but I have had it up to here...I don't want to be cute anymore if that means I am treated like a painting. People admire me but then they move on. I really feel sometimes I have this glass wall around me, like people can not or don't want to get close to me for some reason. So if that is the case, how can I be cute?
I should be happy I am being complimented but I wish it counted for something, a kind of attraction, as I really feel my relationship searching has always been a one way street. Can only date the guys who are interested in me and those are few and far in between.
Please help...
But I am not dating. I just had a guy tell me "You're smart and attractive and fun to be with *but*..." and all I could think was "What the Hell?" It makes me sick hearing people say they like me BUT I can not seem to find any guy willing to date me to give me a chance. I'd hate to think I'm goign to go the "bitter, cynical, snarky" route but I have had it up to here...I don't want to be cute anymore if that means I am treated like a painting. People admire me but then they move on. I really feel sometimes I have this glass wall around me, like people can not or don't want to get close to me for some reason. So if that is the case, how can I be cute?
I should be happy I am being complimented but I wish it counted for something, a kind of attraction, as I really feel my relationship searching has always been a one way street. Can only date the guys who are interested in me and those are few and far in between.
Please help...

Erin
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