What is the point?
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| Sun, 06-17-2007 - 7:56pm |
Hello,
I am just confused! I meet that I thought was a nice, fun guy (Mr. X) on a single parent site (Yes I know that is probably not the brightest idea, or way to start TRYING to get back out there! LOL) about 1 year ago. We talked a lot for a few months, laughed a lot, and then he just stopped calling. I had NOT started dreaming/thinking we where going to get married or anything but it sure was nice to have someone to talk to!! Over the age of 7 that is! LOL Even if she is very wonderfully behaved, and a GREAT kido!
Anyway, Mr. X calls every few months and talks for a few minutes, and then that is it! I call him back in a few days and thank him for calling, we joke around for a minute then it is months, usually, before I hear from him again!
I have not talked to him since about Christmas and he called out of the blue last week! I did not even realize who it was until about 30 seconds into it! LOL He joked around a little and played the standard what have you been up to Q&A, then he had to go. It lasted all of about 3 and 1/2 minutes!!
In his words “I just saw your number laying here and I thought I would give you a call and see what you have been up to.” So why just 3 minutes!! LOL
I called 4 days later and thanked him and he said he might call me later that day if he finished up all he had to do, if not he would talk to me later. That call last all of about 1 and 1/2 minutes!
Now it is almost 1 week later (Yes I know that is really not a long time) and nothing, I am guessing it will be months before I hear from him again!!
What is the point of calling me and keeping in touch all be it for just a few minutes every few months???
I know Mr. X is not married because I have talked to 1 of his children before! He told me that whole story. He also told me (this last week when he called) that he had dated a woman for a few months but it was nothing serious and she was not good for his kids.
I am just confused and wondering about it!! In my early 30's I am still confused, and understand/know NOTING about men!!
Being a single Mom from the point of conception (just almost exactly!!), having a low thyroid problem and loosing a grand totally of 140 lbs., almost, (after fighting like hell for 6 years to find a DR that would actually help me with it!) I think I deserve to find a nice guy!! LOL I know poor me, it is SOOO hard and I just don’t know where to start!
I have my own business, and have it together (I think! LOL), but trying to get out on the dating seen after not dating for YEARS is just terrifying and I have no idea where to start or what to do! LOL
Maybe I am just wondering about the whole Mr. X situation to much but really, why does he do this and what is the point?? Especially for just a few minutes?? LOL
Thanks for your time and help!
txgrl74

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LOL Oh I have found all the donkeys shall we call them nicely! Or Jacka## for those who don't!
I am hanging in there and when I find the key to the barn of good ones I will draw a map for you all!!! LOL
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