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What should i do
| Mon, 09-18-2006 - 5:07pm |
hi im a teen n i am in love with this really older man he is marri dn has 3 kidz he says hes leavin his wife before the yearz done but i dont belive it n i cry all the time im so depressed should i wait for him?? i mean i do love him but i hate him also i hate the fact he sayz he misses me n all this crap but he then tellz me hes still havin sex wit her her he tellz me he dont love her he said he only duzz thatto keep the house calm so she dont like get mad at him or w/e im so confused wat should i do???

I assume you have a gut feeling or some intuition that this man is lying to you. What you are is this man's mistress. If you do not like being the girlfriend on the side then it is time to move on. You should find yourself a man who can be devoted to you and that way you can have a healthy happy relationship rather than one that is filled with pain.
Good luck.
if it is serious, then to answer your question, NO, you should not wait for him, nor should you become involved with any other married men. Have more respect for yourself than that.
Watch the actions, not the words. So far his actions have said this: He's a cheater; he's having sex with someone he says he doesn't love. He's having his cake and eating it too.
Do you really want a man like this in your life?
You're worth so much more, don't bother with him. He hasn't left his wife. He's still with her, still sleeping with her.
Get out now before it's too late.
This is a man many years older than you with a wife and children. He's not leaving all that for you. Get out. Get out and confide in your parents, in a therapist, in a counselor at school, someone trustworty and older about this experience. It's something you need to get out of now. You have your whole life ahead of you and you don't want to get into a habit of getting involved with married men.
GET OUT
If he's cheating on his wife with you, why wouldn't he lie? That's the type of person he is, and do you want to be the type of person who has someone else's guy?