What should I do?

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Registered: 11-08-2005
What should I do?
Sun, 03-12-2006 - 7:25pm
I am madly in love with this guy who is my best friend. Up untill 2 days ago, he has always sad he did not feel the same, but the potential is there. About 13 weeks ago I found out I was pregnant.(by him) We recently found out it is twins. We decided he would move in with me to help out for the first year, but we would not be together (in a relationship) I went to visit him a week ago and he acted different towards me, I thought he was just being nice because I am having his babies. Then I went to visit him again on Thursday. He was in his kitchen and he stoped and said "you know I realized something recently.......I am falling for you......no I have fallen for you......I mean I am in love with you!"
wow, of course I said I love you to, then he said we are now Boyfriend Girlfriend....which is a dream come true......but is he feeling this way becasue he TRUELY is in love with me or because he feels obligated to say it. I have told him I am concerned...and he said he doesn't throw those words out often, and they are genuine. He also said he felt this way for me for a while now, but didn't want to ruen our friendship. (we have been friends for 16 years) I really think he words are genuine...but what do you think?